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Assume accidental error before intentional malice

When someone harms or inconveniences you, default to assuming a mistake. This charitable interpretation is statistically more accurate and prevents unnecessary conflict.

The principle

Human incompetence outweighs deliberate cruelty

Most negative outcomes stem from fatigue, forgetfulness, or poor communication. True malicious intent requires focus and effort that people rarely expend on minor interactions.

The reality

False paranoia destroys trust immediately

Falsely accusing someone of malice destroys relationships instantly. Conversely, treating a bad actor with initial charity costs very little before their true motives show.

The cost

Repeated patterns mark the end of charity

This principle fails when harm becomes a predictable pattern rather than an isolated event. Repeated negative outcomes signal systemic issues or intent, requiring a change in approach.

The limit

Idea

Assuming good intentions is usually the accurate choice

Choosing the kindest interpretation costs little and reflects human error better than assuming malice.

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